Here Are The Steps To Convince Your Husband To Begin An Adult Nursing Relationship

Before you read the below steps to convince your husband to begin an ANR relationship, you need to first understand that each step can sometimes takes days or weeks to complete before moving on to the next step. To avoid arguments about you being perverted or weird because you want an adult nursing relationship, you need to move very slowly and step back slightly when you reach resistance. These instructions were written by a man with a man’s perspective in mind.  You need to think like a man to convince your husband to do what you want.  The main point of these instructions are to make it seem as though you both fell upon this fetish together.  That he was a part of your experience of why you want to start an adult nursing relationship.  You basically lead him into an ANR relationship by accident and as such it doesn’t even occur to him that you are weird or strange for wanting him to suckle your breasts.

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6 Steps To Convince Your Husband to Begin an Adult Nursing Relationship

  1. Sleep Naked Or Topless. Your man loves seeing you naked right?  He loves seeing glimpses of your breasts whenever possible right?  So give him what he wants. If this leads to more sex at night or in the morning, let that happen too.  The main point of this step is to make him comfortable with having you topless at night because down the road he may want a midnight snack or a breast suckle early in the morning.  If he asks about the sudden change, tell him you are hot at night and ask him if he likes it.  I think you know his answer!!
  2. Stay On Top During Sex.  The cowgirl position is the easiest for him to squeeze, play and suck on your breasts during sex.  So make sure you have sex often, every night if you can and don’t be afraid to shove those boobs in his face.  Make sure to ask him to suck on them and when he does make sure to moan and groan a lot and tell him how great it feels and how hot you get when he sucks on them.  Keep this up every time for a few weeks.
  3. After Sex Tell Him How Much You Loved the Sucking. Make sure after your huge orgasm from him sucking to let him know how amazing that felt and how his sucking some how brought you over the edge into ecstasy.  Thank him for the sex and tell him you appreciate that he loves to play with them during sex.
  4. Ask Him To Suckle After Sex.After a few weeks or months of constant sex and sucking ask him to suckle after sex, just while you lay there going to sleep.  Tell him it felt so good you want the feeling to continue a little while.  When he agrees and perhaps he will become aroused again, just go with it and have sex again.  Repeat this step every so often but not every time.  Slowly increase the frequency of your request. 
  5. Ask Him To Suck On a Saturday Morning. Of course it doesn’t have to be a Saturday but choose a day when you stay in bed a little longer one morning.  Wake up facing him with your boobs in his face.  You are topless remember.  Explain sex was amazing last night and request he suck on them for just a few minutes for fun.  If this leads to sex then let it.  Complete this step again but not every time to begin. Increase the frequency like the previous step.  The point of this step is to make him understand, it’s not just a night time thing and perhaps not just a sex thing, that you seem to be enjoying it any time. Complete steps 4 and 5 in succession several times over.
  6. Now You Tell Him You Want an Adult Nursing Relationship.One night after sex you explain again to him that the sex was great and you enjoy the breast play.  Explain that you have been thinking a lot lately about the increase of breast play and immense pleasure you have had from it. That you even looked it up on the internet because it was on your mind so often and that you often thought about your husband sucking on your breasts during different times in the day.  That you day dreamed that he was home so you could enjoy sex and breast play.  Detail for him what you found online.  That you googled and found and at that point you realized other people feel the same and what you now understand is that you dearly want to begin an Adult Nursing Relationship with your husband.

At this point he is absolutely loving the increase in sex and your constant compliments about his sexual abilities are paying off. You have boosted his ego and he has also enjoyed the fact you sleep naked and offer your breasts for him to play with whenever he wants.  Really how can he say no?  In fact I would say he is probably already into the lifestyle as well and wants to start an Adult Nursing Relationship too but was afraid to ask you.  At the very least he isn’t going to think your request is strange or perverted.

If this article helped you at all please comment and let us know.  We want to know your experiences with ANR as well.  You don’t need to leave your real name or even your real email address.


Adult Nursing Relationship Video

I understand this website is not really about pornography. I know a lot of people would consider an adult nursing relationship video to be pornography. I felt I really needed to make this post and show you this video even though it’s pornography because I absolutely loved it. Yes it’s true I was completely aroused and I’m not afraid to say it.

Adult Nursing Relationship Video

Adult Nursing Relationship Video

It brought back amazing memories of sucking on my wife’s breasts, drinking her milk as she had her letdown. I understand that an adult nursing relationship is more about bonding than sex but for me it’s all about kink and sex. The bonding comes as a result of the kinky sex. I couldn’t imagine drinking my wife’s breast milk and sex play not being involved.

So please enjoy this video but if you do not want to watch the pornography feel free to avoid it. Watch out for the pop under’s in your web browser’s. It’s quite simple to close the extra windows that populate. It’s the price that you pay for free pornography.

Please feel free to comment on this post and tell me what you feel about me posting some videos whether you like it or not and whether you want more. I have found several more videos that I can post for you but if most comments are of disgust, I probably won’t bother.

I hope you enjoy this adult nursing relationship video.

I want to take this time to remind you that I have now created a discussion board for you to discuss your adult nursing relationships with this community. Feel free to discuss any topic you like related to adult nursing. If you would like to upload your own  adult nursing relationship video please comment and let me know.



We now have a Forum.  It’s ANR

We began our ANR relationship quite suddenly and here is the back story of how it all happened and why.

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My husband and I had two children at the time and I was breastfeeding our second. I have a need during sex to have my breasts squeezed and sucked.  It helps me reach orgasm quicker if my husband plays with my breasts, so to begin with we had that to give us a little push.

When I breastfeed my first child my husband played with my breasts very little during sex.  Neither of us wanted it for fear he would get some milk.  Looking back it was so silly of us.  Look what we missed out on. The second child we went back to normal. He played with them as much or even a little more often during sex.  I have smaller boobs and I believe he was enjoying the size increase.  At the same time though we were very careful not to allow milk to come out.  If I felt something happening, like a flow occurring or anything related to milk I would quietly tell him he needs to stop touching them so hard or not at all.  Near the end of the year of breastfeeding, he disregarded my suggestions a little more and more but nothing ever happened. It felt like maybe he wanted it to happen though but would never say it.

Then one day our child felt under the weather.  He wasn’t breast feeding as much and my boobs were beginning to fill to uncomfortable levels.  I hate pumps but by the evening the pain was becoming very uncomfortable and I began searching the house for the pump.  My husband helped to look as well.

As we looked and failed to find it for several minutes my husband had an idea.  He said you know I could suck the milk out for you. “What are you crazy!” I exclaimed.

He said, well it’s kind of a turn on, I like sucking your boobs during sex and plus I’ve never tried your milk. I find the whole thing to be naughty, like a real kink, he said.  It could be our little secret that I tasted your breast milk. The thought sent my heart a flutter and I blushed as I thought of it.  It was an understatement to say I was excited.

We set out to give it a try.  It was now getting late and our kids were sleeping so I sat on the couch and he lay down and placed his head on my lap.  I lifted my shirt and undid my bra.  I told him if he changed his mind or he didn’t like it he could stop anytime.

He began sucking and it hurt a little. I asked him to be a little gentler, unless he wanted my nipples to look chewed.  He began sucking a little softer and it began to feel quite pleasant.

I looked into his eyes and he into mine and I began to feel closeness to him that I hadn’t ever felt.  It was almost like bonding with my child except it was my husband.  He was wearing loose shorts and I watched as he reached down to adjust himself, just like men are always doing.  Only when he stopped and moved his hand I could see he was fully erect.  He was bulging out of his shorts. It got me excited seeing him aroused from sucking my breasts.  I reached down into his shorts and began to stroke and play with his penis.  At the same time I looked him in the eyes again, only this time his eyes rolled back in his head as he was enjoying me stroking him off.  It had been a few days since we made love so he was ever so welcoming of my touch.

At about that moment, it felt like my boob was going to have a let down.  I let him know in advance it was coming and before I knew it he was sucking and swallowing as quickly as he could, drinking all the milk I had to offer.

After about ten gulps he stopped and pulled away.  My breast milk was shooting all over his face.  I said, oh shit, I’m sorry and grabbed my boob to stop the flow.  My husband said, don’t be sorry.  I wanted to feel your milk spraying my face.  He wanted the milk all over him.

Then we went back to sucking a few more seconds and he began to moan.  He was about to ejaculate.  I gripped his penis a little harder and stroked a lot faster and two seconds later he ejaculated out the top of his shorts and all over his stomach.  He convulsed several times with a load moan.

After a few more seconds he stopped moaning but he did not stop sucking.  This was good because I needed the relief of his suckling still.  I soon had him switch breasts and he emptied my other one.

When he was done, we both agreed that was an enjoyable experience.  In fact he wanted to do it again right away because he wanted me to have an orgasm too.  He wanted to drink my milk while having sex.  I agreed we would definitely try this again.  We had a deep and passionate kiss.  I said this will be our little secret right and he said oh, yes, nobody needs to know.

I told him though we couldn’t do it right away because I was empty, my son needed the milk first and my husband would want some recuperation time before our next round.  I told him maybe at bed time or early in the morning we could have a second session.

This is how we started our ANR relationship.  How did you start your ANR relationship?  Please take the time to comment and tell me your experience.  If I get a fair amount of responses I may start this site as a forum for everyone who loves Adult Nursing Relationships.  Then we can all share and learn all about this special experience between two lovers.

I hope you liked my article and please come back to read more

From your friend, Milk Mamma.



My husband has taken to sucking on my breasts when we make love.  I am a nursing mother and am currently breastfeeding my 6 month old.  At first I felt it was strange but he always sucked and licked them before.  The difference is now he drinks the milk.  At first he did not but he soon began to get small amounts in his mouth and before we knew it he was getting mouth fulls .

Over the months I have come to really enjoy breastfeeding my husband.  We do it everyday.  Basically we have started having an ANR Relationship and we both love it.

If you are the same and fear you may be unusual or that you are teetering on some weird taboo, please understand you are not.  I plan on building this website into a grand Adult Nursing Relationship informational site where you can learn everything there is to know about breastfeeding your husband.

If you feel in your heart that it bonds you both and brings you closer together how could it be wrong?  You know it’s right and now you have found a place you can come to, to learn and share your feelings.

Please enjoy and bare with me as I develop this site.

Thanks and enjoy.